Dating my bestfriends sister
Gain inside knowledge: Use your relationship with your friend to gather some insight into what his sister likes and doesn’t like.You have access to a great resource, if he’s willing to assist.6.See #4 for one good reason; the other is that you don’t want to give the impression that you were using his friendship to get connected to his sister.Weigh out the complications before deciding to enter into one of these sibling relationships.Always remember that, in their eyes, you’re talking about their brother/sister, not ‘your friend’ or ‘your girl’.9.Don’t break her heart: This is one of the biggest dangers that you risk in dating the sister of one of your friends. If she feels wounded or betrayed, her tears are not likely to go over to well with her brother.Don’t take sides: If there’s a disagreement between your friend and his sister, do not take sides.Insist on remaining neutral and not being brought into the middle of the argument.
Is this really a faux pas or is that just the realm of television? My wife has a brother only, and years ago he dated one of her female friends.
I'm sure my brother would not have objected if we dated but it would have been awkward for the friend and me.
My buddy married the sister of one of his lifelong friends.
Remember the relationship: This fits along with the previous tip.
Be careful about what you say about the sibling in front of your friend or your girl.
I grew up with 2 brothers so I have no experience in this area but if a good friend of mine that was a girl had wanted to date a brother, I'm sure that it wouldn't have bothered me. It didn't bother her, she says, until the girl started going on about how good he was in bed.